Little Survey
One of my little friends posted a survey on her blog ( link below) and I decided to go ahead and answer it here on mine. “https://toraprincess.wordpress.com/2018/03/15/little-survey/
Has discovering other Littles had an impact on how you see yourself? It is easier to accept this part of yourself?
I would have to say yes it has helped greatly. When Sir J and I were first starting out in this whole D/s thing we tried several different elements of BDSM relationship to see what would best fit us. I was on an on-line site that catered to married couples who wanted to learn more on adding D/s to their relationship. ( Site name will not be mentioned as I no longer believe in the style they are trying to pass as healthy D/s) Through this site I met some of the very subs I still talk to today. We learned about our Little sides together and realized we were not alone in our thinking and desires.
Has finding other Littles helped you feel less alone in the world?
Yes greatly as I mentioned above you can feel quite alone even with in the D/s and BDSM sub-cultures. There are many views on what a Little should and shouldn’t be so it helps to have others that understand. My Little friends and I all have very different types of dynamics. No one way is better than the other and we support each other as best we can.
Do you find your relationships with your Little friends to be more intimate than other friendships?
Not really but let me explain…. I only have one really good friend outside of my Little friends. I am a bit of an introvert and being deaf makes it hard to make new friends. People get frustrated easily when they think you are not listening to them. My Little friends are all online but we have talked for years so I feel as at ease with them as I do my best friend. Also helps that my best friend is also in a D/s marriage though she does not identify herself as a Little she doesn’t judge me for my choices. (Also she loves to color and watch Disney movies too- maybe a closet Little, lol).
Is it easier to form friendships with other Littles?
Yes and No. Making new friends is hard for me for many reasons. I think it might be a little easier because I meet them online mostly.
March 22, 2018 at 1:45 am
thanks LL!!!
pffftttt on that place that routinely discouraged littles. BUT WE WILL PREVAIL!!!
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March 22, 2018 at 2:24 am
I know right. Littles will rule the world.
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April 5, 2018 at 5:00 am
Hi little Pearl. It is a pleasure to find your blog. Waves from darling. 🤓
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April 5, 2018 at 9:51 am
Thank you. Waves back from Little Pearl. Glad you stopped by.
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January 8, 2019 at 7:09 pm
Just recently discovered my little. I’m very new to all this. Any suggestions?
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January 9, 2019 at 12:05 am
Hi there lovie. I would say definitely research and read as much as you can. Find like minded people as it helps to have people to talk to if you have questions. Let me know if you have anything in particular that you want to know about and I will see if I can help you find some resources.
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